Every day people come to me with problems. Sometimes I’m not sure how to deal with them. People seem to come to me for advice.. when i’m so emtionally unstable myself. I never understood why they always come to me. Maybe it’s because i like to listening, and i try to help anyway i can. But, i hate drama. I’m sick of relationship issues, and girls being upset just because they can’t find a boy who likes them. Life isn’t about finding someone. It’s about experiences, and the friendships you make. Yes, i understand that love is a little bonus. But seriously.. how many people stay with one person for the rest of their lives. The people you meet in high school will not always be there. You will meet so many new people and college and experience so many new things. I want my friends to be happy. There is no reason to be hung up on a boy. Life is full of challenges. I understand where they are coming from. I dated a boy for a year and half.. and i’m still not over him. I have to watch him flirt with my best friend every day. And see him cuddle with a girl who i thought i was really good friends with. Yes, it hurts.. but not everything is supposed to be perfect. People come and go through out your life. Some doors close so that bigger and better ones can open. Things may not work out with one person because there is someone better. You can’t keep your head in the past.. you might miss someone that’s sitting right in front of your feet. My friends are constantly upset over stupid little things. I just wish everything could go back to grade school. When boys had cooties, and we didn’t even converse. Life was so much easier then, but i would not be the person i am today without my friends. And i do love them. But i hate seeing them in pain. I wish they would realize that they don’t deserve people like that. If someone is going to mistreat them, and be a total ass, then what’s the point? You do not have to worry about anything like that til you hit 35-40. When it’s time to settle down. I just wish everyone would get along. Some one said to me, “I hate this. Why do we need labels? Why can’t we all just be fuck buddies and get along?” It’s because everyone wants the feeling of love. No one wants to be forgotten. After seeing so many relationships fail, i want it more then anything. I never wanna be the 50 year old single woman that never found love. I want love more then anything. But, you can’t sit around and let love own you. You got to live your life. And if love comes along, then great. But you can’t sit around and wait for it. You gotta live your life for you. You can’t let it control you. I wish my friends new that.