Questions will constantly come up when you’re in a relationship. And i would like to tell you that they will be answered, but they won’t. You have to have faith that things will work out. Whenever i talk to people who don’t think that their relationship will work out.. it usually doesn’t. By saying that things won’t work out, it’s setting them up for failure from the beginning. If something bad happens you’ll just say, “well we weren’t gonna last anyway”. When you are willing to put in the effort (which i know you are), things will work themselves out. When you have faith that things will be okay, they will be. You can tell that he cares for you, just by the way he looks into your eyes. He is not constantly looking at your boobs or butt. He looks into your eyes to see and understand the real you. He wants to be there for you. He holds you cause he cares for you. He hangs out with you because he enjoys your company. You two work well together. It’s not a bad thing to plan out your future. It means you want it to work. You hope that you two have a strong enough bond to last for months and months. It is a scary situation. You don’t know if something will happen, and if your plans will be different. But if he’s important enough that you’re starting to plan a future with him, then he is right for you. Questions are a normal part of dating, but what you have to realize is that they aren’t going to end your relationship. There’s no way to get them to go away. They’re almost like a little test, but these test can be avioded by trusting him. That he won’t hurt you, and that he’ll be honest to you throughout your relationship with him.

You have to keep your communication open. That’s my one big of advice to you. You guys don’t always have to have heart to heart, but just talk every once inawhile. If you want things to work, you’re probably gonna have to let your guard down a little bit. I know that’s hard. But when things fully click between you two, it will be easy. I told my ex my entire life time story one night, and it brought up so much closer together. We understood eachother, and knew why we acted the way we did. It helped us to become close and care for eachother more then i could know. You and him will get to that point if you want too. He is good to you. He can be that guy that you trust and want to know about your life. I can tell you from what i know, that he will be there for you unless you are the one that pushes him away. He wants to be that guy for you. He wants to be the guy you are constantly thinking about when you’re not with him. He wants to be the person that makes you happy. And i think this is what you need. That kinda of affection only comes along so often. Don’t pass things up just because you are scared. I’m not saying you have to jump.

Wait until you have his hand, and jump together. It’s worth it. I promise.